Hi Reader,

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Feeling anger can be empowering, like unleashing an inner hulk. But have you ever considered that beneath that anger lies a deep-seated pain? As a single woman entrepreneur on a journey to financial independence and love, it's crucial to recognize the role that unaddressed pain plays in your life.
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Sometimes, instead of feeling the pain of being betrayed or hurt, you may find yourself consumed by anger. It becomes a defense mechanism, shielding you from vulnerabilities and hindering your ability to heal. Letting go of this negative emotion can be daunting; It requires checking in with yourself and embracing your true emotions.​
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Recognize that there are primary emotions, like anger, joy, sadness, and trust, which are our initial reactions to external situations. Secondary emotions come after these initial reactions and often intensify our emotional experiences. Unfortunately, clinging onto secondary emotions can be toxic, affecting not only your personal connections but also your ability to trust and take risks in business or relationships.
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Imagine staying in your shell, not risking vulnerability or sharing your unique feelings. Being genuine is something people truly appreciate. Whether in business or personal relationships, authenticity is a magnet that attracts trust and meaningful connections.​
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​Sitting in front of her, I sense the inner conflict she carries. Both determination and exhaustion, with a touch of sadness lingering in her eyes.
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Her words reveal a desire for financial independence and love, yet she struggles with the absence of anger and its adverse impact on her healing journey and ability to connect. She longs to break free from patterns that restrict her growth, acknowledging that her anger acts as a shield, hiding her true pain and inhibiting genuine connections.
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Observing her energy, I sense a caged bird yearning to soar freely. Unexpressed emotions swirl within her, pleading for release and understanding. Despite her aspirations, she hasn't aligned with her true self, causing energetic blockages that hinder her from unlocking her potential and forming deep connections.
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Empathy guides me as I approach her, recognizing her deep-seated struggle. Transformation, healing, and authentic connections are her desires. By acknowledging her emotions, working through anger, and embracing vulnerability, she can unlock her true self and create a life of alignment, love, and prosperity.​
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Don't let the fear of being authentic hold you back from experiencing life fully. Life is about relationships and taking risks. If you stumble, gather the lessons learned and keep trying until you gain the skill to identify the "bad apples" from a distance.
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Remember, the more you open up, the more open others will be in return. Those who remain closed off will fade away, leaving room for those who value and reciprocate authenticity.
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With Love ​
​Monique

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